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“If Only I’d Known …”

by Mike Gamble


Nothing can fully prepare you for the overwhelming experience of caring for your elderly loved one.


Obviously, you are involved because they can’t do everything they need to do to live independently. Whatever the situation, you are now responsible for caring for them. But, like most people, you aren’t sure of your next step, or even your first step.

Our goal is to provide you with the information and support you need to care for your loved one — so that you can enjoy your time together more, be more confident and worry less.

To see what matters to most people, simply click on an image below.

Eldercare101 - Picture of Daughter & Elderly MomPicture of woman caregiver totally stressed outElderly woman in denial with hands over earsSupport forum for family caregivers
Do elderly drivers still drive safely?New Medicare Card introduced in 2018Alzheimer's disease and other dementias steal mindsNarcissist, controling elderly person
Sorry, but I can't help you care for MomWhere to find money (and free resources) for in-home care

Whether you are in the middle of a crisis and decisions have to be made quickly, or planning ahead because of unsettling warning signs, we can help you find the answers you need.

A regular visitor offered the following advice to new visitors:

“Welcome to this place, where you can say what you need to, and learn from others’ mistakes and get help and in turn help someone else. There is so much wisdom here, and care and kindness, it is what we all need to get through all the things we must. …”
~ JAH


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"If Only I'd Known ... I would have done things differently!"
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Nothing can fully prepare you for the overwhelming experience of caring for your elderly parent or loved one. Here's what matters to most people.
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Mike Gamble
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